Why must we continue to blame women for entering an experience that is deeply human, that requires the consent of both genders?
So my question to women is this: can you listen to a woman who has had an affair? Are you willing to hear her story without telling yourself she is not like you, that you would never do what she has done, that she must be bad woman? What will it take for us to become as responsive to our friends? behavior, our mother?s and daughters? behavior, our own behavior, as we are to men?s? When will we believe that our own sexuality is as forceful, that our own emotional needs are as compelling, as men?s? Why must we continue to blame women for entering an experience that is deeply human, that requires the consent of both genders?