You’re having Sex but are you having fun?
How to put the ha-ha back into the ho-hum!
It’s Saturday so it’s time for sex.
It’s time for sex so you undress.
You’re undressed ,so he lies on top.
Zzzzzzz Lisa Sussman reveals
How to give your lovemaking a
Tee-hee injection.
Excuse me,can we just lighten up a bit about sex? Seriously.Oh sure, it’s a momentous issue. Are my orgasms big enough? Should I do it outside occasionally? Should I use props? These are all valid questions, but there is the one we some times forget: is my love life a bundle of fun? That’s right, a mischievous ,messy, mucky, fall-off-the-bed hysterical romp of hilarity. The idea is written into the very language of love:foreplay, sexplay, afterplay-and it’s not called fooling around for nothing.
In fact, if you get right down to it, the point of making love isn’t about climaxes at all . No joke. An orgasm is merely the combined results of your body’s goodwill and an ability to tickle the right spot. What defines truly terrific lovemaking is that you enjoy yourself, whether the walls shake or not. For you and your partner to be able to laugh together in bed, and delight in each other while you love, well,that’s seventh heaven.
We get so caught up in the idea of having on orgasm that we don’t experience the pleasure and fun of simply touhing each other and being there together, says sexologist Misha Halu. And often, that’s when the orgasm will come- when you relax, forget about it and just enjoy the lovemaking. So if you have an orgasm-or 10- gorgeous. If not, you can still have a good time in the process.
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